TO THE WOMAN IN A BROKEN & DAMAGED RELATIONSHIP.

Let a man know the do’s and don’ts at the beginning of the relationship . Many of us women are involved in broken and damaged relationships that are not worth our investments. Yes, you might have lived together for years, but if the years you have sacrificed thinking he could change don’t add up to him too, then it’s time to step up, own your life, and move on. Some Human beings can be very selfish, and you don’t want to die a faithful wife with an empty life. But first, get ready to work your very hard and gain financial independence.

If you notice signs of disrespect in your relationship, such as not listening, not caring about your concerns, and always being aloof, it’s time to take note of the things that make you feel disrespected and speak to your partner openly and honestly.

1.You should never put up with disrespect from a man, such as yelling, not paying attention when you talk to him, making fun of your aspirations, making you feel inferior to him, showing a lack of commitment, talking down to you in front of others, never being the first to apologize when indeed in wrong, making excuses for his actions, and getting angry when you want to have alone time.

2.If you’re called out for being disrespectful, acknowledge your emotions and remember that even if you didn’t intend to hurt that person, their hurt is still very real and legitimate. Use your favorite internet browser to find a resource or article online that helps explain why your action or comment could have come off as disrespectful, and apologize genuinely.

3.Remember that you deserve respect, whether it’s from a partner or a friend. Signs that your friend doesn’t respect you as a person include not caring to take your opinions, getting angry when you try to set boundaries, and you always being the first one to apologize time to time.

4. Don’t let anyone disrespect you and always stand up for yourself.