CONVINCING A MAN TO MARRY YOU!

Dear Darling Lady,

You may have heard the saying that “a man knows what he wants when he sees it.” While this may be true, it is important to remember that each man is unique and has his own set of preferences when it comes to choosing a life partner. In fact, according to author John Molloy, the primary reason a man asks one woman to marry and not another is that each woman treats him differently. With that in mind, it is important to be true to yourself and to treat your partner with kindness, compassion, and trustworthiness.

It is also important to remember that marriage is a two-way street. While it may be tempting to try to convince a man to marry you, it is ultimately up to him to make that decision. As the wedding card reads, “Jane Weds Musa,” not “Musa weds Jane.” It is a man who convinces a lady to marry him.

Times are changing, and more women are choosing to be unmarried. Women are realizing that there are many other paths in life besides marriage and children. However, for those who do want to get married, it is important to remember that marriage requires a substantial increase in behavioral commitment, and men may resist marriage because they don’t feel ready for that transition.

In summary, while it is important to be true to yourself and to treat your partner with kindness and compassion, it is ultimately up to the man to decide whether or not he wants to get married. Marriage is a two-way street, and both partners must be willing to make a commitment to each other.